The Painting
Back in March, I visited art exhibition highlighting the works of local artist Tiit Raid. I have always enjoyed visiting art galleries. However, for the first time in my life on that night in March, I experienced an unexpected, profound, and repeatable emotional response to one particular painting.
In this episode, I share my experience along with a number other ramblings you have come to expect from me in this format.
The title of the painting is: “Fall Creek: Late Afternoon II”.
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Fairy Tale Part 1: Revisiting King’s Fantasy Work
When was the last time you bought a hardcover novel from an actual book store?
If you had asked me that question a month ago, I would not have been able to answer. It’s been a long, long time. But that has changed, and I’m now the proud owner of a brand new hardcover work of fiction: “Fairy Tale” by Stephen King.
I have not read anything by Stephen King in decades as my taste for the horror genre went away in my early 20s. But with this release, Stephen wanders back into fantasy, and my experiences some of his prior fantasy work led me to make the impromptu purchase.
In this episode, I share some of my cautious optimism as a revisit a favorite author from long, long ago.
Happy New Year!
I Skipped Church to Watch Soccer
A special thanks to my big brother Bob for the inspiration to record this episode.
Merry Christmas!
Tesla Video #3 and World Cup Soccer Thoughts
In this episode I primarily talk about my newfound interest in soccer as I have been watching and enjoying the World Cup over the last month.
But before I jump in to soccer thoughts, I share quick udpate on my recent experiences testing Tesla’s FSD Beta with my friend John. We got out for a drive over the weekend to record video #3 in the planned series. This time around, I was back behind the wheel for *MY* second FSD Beta experience, and we invited our friend Charlie to join us as a brave and adventurous back seat passenger.
You can check out the video of our drive here: Pilot Friends’ Impressions! Tesla FSD Beta 10.69.3.1
Tesla Full Self-Driving (FSD) and Me: A Retrospective
I had a fun experience recently when I got to drive (or more accurately, “be driven by”) my good friend John’s Tesla Model Y with Full Self-Driving.
John has a YouTube channel focused on electric vehicles and invests a lot of time and energy into testing and reviewing Tesla’s Full Self-Driving capabilities and performance. He set up his cameras, put me in the driver’s seat, and captured my real-time reaction as I not only drove a Model Y for the first time but also let the Tesla do it’s thing with FSD.
This episode captures some of my initial thoughts and reactions.
You can watch the video here: Friend’s 1st Tesla FSD Beta Drive (He Did It – First Try)
Let’s Stop Watering Our Lawns
I guess this is the closest thing to environmental activism I have ever done. That is, recording my thoughts about what I consider to be one of the most wasteful uses of fresh water. But it is something that I find unnerving.
Oh, and I include a driving PSA, as well.
Enjoy!
I Can’t Relate to “Autumn Anxiety”
Earlier this week, I saw an article on Medium.com titled:
Do You Have Autumn Anxiety?
What Causes Fall Freakouts and How to Manage Them.
This caught my attention as I love autumn, and I cannot identify whatsoever with the fall season creating anxiety.
For me, autumn does the opposite. September through November are my favorite months of the year, and I feel invigorated, hopeful, and encouraged.
So, naturally, I grabbed my Zoom recorder and starting talking about it.
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Will You (and I) Hunker Down or Captain the Ship?
I was both convicted and inspired by something that Ray Edwards said in a recent episode of his podcast.
Interested in learning more? Listen on, my friend!
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Please Look at Me! (Thoughts on customer service at the coffee shop.)
When I walk through the doors of a local coffee shop – or any retail store, for that matter – I do not expect immediate service. I get it, people are busy, and it’s hard to find a busier atmosphere than a coffee shop from 7:00am – 9:00am.
However, I’ve noticed a recurring phenomenon where I feel completely invisible as a customer patiently waiting for help, and that doesn’t make sense to me.
In this episode, I share some thoughts on my recent (and ongoing) experience with what I consider a very-easy-to-fix customer service issue.
Temporary Shoplifter
For a brief period of time last week, I was a shoplifter on the run.
To be fair, it was an accident, and as soon as I realized what I had done, I fixed the situation.
This is my story.
Reading Inspires Me
And so, after more than three months of inactivity, I’m here to share my thoughts about how reading inspires me.
I specifically talk about:
- Episode 67 of Jon Acuff’s podcast
- My new read, “Hero on a Mission” by Donald Miller
- “The Earned Life” by Marshall Goldsmith
Also briefly mentioned was my love of math books. If that caught your ear, here are a couple of recommendations:
- “Here’s Looking at Euclid: From Counting Ants to Games of Chance – An Awe-Inspiring Journey Through the World of Numbers” by Alex Bellos
- “Fermat’s Enigma: The Epic Quest to Solve the World’s Greatest Mathematical Problem” by Simon Singh
- “The Simpsons and Their Mathematical Secrets”, also by Simon Singh
Does reading inspire you? What books have you read recently that motivated you to action?
Thanks for listening, and I hope your spring/summer is kicking off well!
Thank You, Mr. Bolden
I was very fortunate to have a number of excellent and caring educators as a child and in my college years. I don’t know what brought him to mind, but I was recently thinking about one of my third grade teachers, Mr. Bolden.
In this episode, I share a couple of short stories about him that I am pleased have remained etched in my brain all these years later.
Thank you, Mr. Bolden.
This Jay’s No DJ
I have a lot of thoughts and stories I want to share in 2022, so let’s get this thing going again!
Happy New Year!
Hobby Jumping Engaged: My DJ Journey (LFC)
My inner serial hobby jumper has been somewhat dormant recently, but I think I have found the next thing I want to investigate: learning how to DJ.
The world of professional DJing is flush with all kinds of new learning opportunities related to gear, software, technique, music curation, entertainment, event management, and many others! For me specifically, the fusion of technology, music, and entertainment creates a potential feast of fun and learning that’s just too tempting to pass up.
In this episode, I share what led to me deciding to check out the whole DJ thing and where I think I’m headed with it, longer-term.
Also, with this release, I am introducing the “Long Form Content (LFC)” label to alert listeners that the episode is longer than my typical content. We’ll see how that goes.
Enjoy!
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Lofty Pursuits
In this episode, I share my recently-found enthusiasm for a YouTube channel and podcast produced by the owner of Lofty Pursuits and Public Displays of Confection, a candy store and much more in Florida.
Greg, the owner and host, creates fun and interesting videos on their YouTube channel, and I love the style and content of the Lofty Pursuits Podcast, as well.
So, on *this* drive home, I’ll share a few more details about how I discovered this stuff and why I enjoy it so much.
I’m hoping you will check it out, too! Links below.
Lofty Pursuits website: http://www.loftypursuits.com/
Public Displays of Confection: https://www.pd.net/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/LoftyPursuits
Podcast: https://loftypursuits.libsyn.com/website
“Cool shoes, Man!”
However, it was enough to inspire this episode where I share just a bit about my…well, shoe problem. Or maybe it’s a gift?
I’ll let you decide.
Girl You Know It’s True! (I Know Milli Vanilli Lyrics)
Why did I decide to turn my Spotify dial to Milli Vanilli?
Great question. But I did.
And I remembered all of the lyrics! That took me by surprise.
This experience and a few other thoughts during this very short On My Drive Home episode.
Happy October!
A More Relaxing Read
I unexpectedly rediscovered reading magazines this summer thanks to the subscription that accompanied my new Experimental Aircraft Association membership.
I really enjoy it!
As a result, I’ve (mostly) leaned into magazines and a book as the go-to sources for my morning reading over breakfast, and I find that it makes for a much more relaxing start to my day.
In this episode, I share my thoughts for why I think this new habit is more relaxing than engaging with my iPhone as I sip my morning coffee.
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Immediately Liking Songs
There have been a handful of memorable times in my music listening history when I heard a song for the very first time and *IMMEDIATELY* liked it. When I say “immediately”, I mean within the first few bars of the song.
It is a rare experience, and I have to ask: Why?
What is it that catches me off-guard, stops my brain, and engages me in such a unique way? I have wondered this about music over the years, and I’m curious if there’s any hidden pattern to these specific occurrences.
In this episode I share a short list of tunes that had this impact on me.
Are there any songs that you instantly really liked the first time you heard it? Does it happen often? Or, like me, are there only a small number that left that kind of impression?
Alternative Cuss Words and Dad Sayings
My father rarely swore. But when he did, it was passed through the language cleansing translator in his brain and delivered as a common, benign word that still communicated the intensity of his emotions.
In short, he used Alternative Cuss Words.
In this episode, I introduce the concept of Alternative Cuss Words and share some of the more common examples my dad often used when I was growing up.
I also share some of the other unique Dad Sayings from both my dad and my father-in-law.
Did your family have their own vernacular for replacing foul language? Most families did. And it’s something I never really thought too much about until I witnessed another family using their own unique vocabulary of Alternative Cuss Words.
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For the Love of Local Hardware Stores
I’m a huge fan of small, local hardware stores. And for most of the last 20 years, I have had the great fortune of living within a few minutes of a small neighborhood hardware shop.
In this episode, I share why I think they are so great and tell a short story (that I spontaneously recalled) about how sweeping compound nearly closed the personal space gap between me and another shop patron I had never met.
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Duluth Airshow Experience
I took a solo trip to Duluth, MN on Sunday, June 27, to check out the Duluth Air and Aviation Expo. It was a great show, and I wanted to share my thoughts and enthusiasm with you.
Oh, and I also share a short rant about people leaving early.
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Finding That Which Inspires
I’m currently on my second pass through the book “Soundtracks” by Jon Acuff. I remixed one of his soundtracks, “Writers Write”, to “Podcasters Podcast” and that became the catalyst to fire up my recorder and capture a new episode. Jon’s books are fantastic, and I highly recommend grabbing a copy of “Soundtracks” for yourself!
In addition to my thoughts on my new soundtrack, I also talk a bit about my cycling vs. lawn care dilemma, and I share an Apple Watch update. Spoiler Alert: I bought one. And it’s great.
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B-Sides: Discovering the Non-Hits on 45 RPM Records
I heard a Billy Joel song last month called “Laura” on Sirius XM that I had not heard in decades. It was never a hit, and few people would likely have ever even heard of it. But I knew it because it was the B-Side of the 45 single “Pressure” released by Billy Joel from his “Nylon Curtain” album.
It got me to thinking about the songs I discovered and learned to like just because they were on the other side of the record from the song I initially cared about.
In this episode, I muse a bit about my memories of this musical discovery mechanism and share a few other vinyl-inspired thoughts and stories.
Angry, but Not Rude: A Lesson I Learned from My Friend Rich
Years ago, I learned a great technique for managing my anger when dealing with very frustrating situations – especially when dealing with them requires interacting with other people.
I learned this valuable lesson somewhat by accident as I listened to how my good friend Rich handled a thorny travel situation as he held his phone off to the side with me on the other end.
I don’t think that I ever told Rich about the lesson he didn’t know he was teaching. But it has stuck with me and been a handy tool when I want to be sure I manage myself well in difficult interactions.
I hope you find it as valuable as I do.